Blog Posts
When Worthiness Becomes Peformance
You’ve done everything you were told would make you feel worthy, but the doubt’s still there. This blog explores the trap of performing worthiness and what changes when we stop trying to earn it.
What if I’m Just Not Worthy?
You’ve spent years trying to prove you’re enough, what if you didn’t have to? This reflection explores where our belief in unworthiness begins and what shifts when we question it.
The Myth of 'I'm Too Busy to Change'
Being busy can be a distraction from change.
This blog explores how “I’m too busy” can mask deeper resistance, and what to do about it.
Are You Addicted to Struggle?
When chaos feels familiar, ease can feel wrong.
This week, we unpack the hidden payoff of struggle, and how to break the addiction to hard and how to listen to the parts of you that believe struggle means you're worthy.
Why Achievers Self-Sabotage (And What To Do About It)
High performers aren’t immune to self-sabotage, they just hide it better.
This post explores how success can fuel avoidance, not growth.
Trust Your Body, Not Just Your Brain
Your body holds more wisdom than your thoughts.
This week’s post explores how to recognise somatic cues, regulate emotion, and build internal trust.
The First Step Is Not What You Think
Most people start change by doing.
But real change starts by noticing.
This week’s blog explores a different kind of first step.
How Real Change Happens: It Is Not What You Think
Change isn’t about willpower.
It’s about safety, readiness, and internal permission.
Discover how transformation really works.
Why We Fear Success More Than Failure
Explore why reaching your potential feels scary and how fear of success keeps you playing small, even when you're capable of more.
What Is Self-Sabotage and How to Recognise It
Self-sabotage isn’t laziness or failure; it’s often a hidden strategy for staying safe. In this post, I unpack what it really is, why smart people do it, and how to start breaking the cycle.
Professional Boundaries for Unconventional Careers
Professional Boundaries for Unconventional Careers
I'm Not Impressed by Your Success (Or Your Drama)
I'm Not Impressed by Your Success (Or Your Drama)
Why 'Self-Care' Isn't Enough for Driven Professionals
Why 'Self-Care' Isn't Enough for Driven Professionals